BrenWise Tips for Better Living: Resilience by Redefining Yourself
I’ve redefined my family structure, changed my support system, modified my beliefs, altered my purpose in life, and even changed my name. No, I am not a criminal on-the-run. Life happened and each detour led to shifts in my identity. I believe that these shifts matter. They mark where you are on the map of […]
BrenWise Tips for Better Living: Relationship Block
5 Things to Do When Your Worst Self Comes Out Ever Wondered, “What just happened?” Have you found yourself totally derailed in a conversation that started calmly, then suddenly, you’re fighting and becoming more angry or hurt by the second? If you haven’t, you will sooner or later. Humans who want to be understood, valued, […]
BrenWise Tips for Better Living: Why Can’t They Get What I’m Saying??
Ever want to scream because someone who matters to you cannot seem to get you? Or maybe they can’t seem to get their thoughts and feelings across to you? Screaming, of course, only makes it worse. The noise and meaning distortion can halt all willingness to communicate. You can avoid misunderstandings and unnecessary stress in […]
BrenWise Tips for Better Living: Polarized Positions Breed Impasse
Do you get the feeling that you have no idea what is true? Spin-doctors abound in our post-COVID19 world. We’ve become isolated and begun believing whatever the people we listen to say rather than thinking for ourselves. Or we may swing the opposite direction and refuse to believe anyone. Eventually we all lean in one […]